It's not about this problem, and in relation to it. Is the formation of family relations. This word may seem incomprehensible. And that was before? Earlier too there was the family! Yes, it was, but it was a family where there was a specific child, adolescent, boy (girl). Adults and the younger generation. And the relevant family relationships. And now have to build new family relationships, the relationship is not with child, adolescent, and so on, and relationships with adults practically man.
Here, just go under the table, and now he's voice cut. In this position, and the natural interests of the parties, there is no problem. The problem is not the problem itself, but the fact that each side can go all the way in misunderstanding of the positions and interests of other parties. Of course, should be respected junior to senior, and especially the elderly, but also the desire to be older to start a dialogue with yesterday's child, as a dialogue with the already adult. For a young man (woman) right now, at this stage, the stage is laid Othala runes to family and understanding family, the awareness of the family. And through the prism of the family also arranged and the relationship with society. Problems at this stage will lead to a denial, rejection of family problems already own family, or disproportionate to the deification of the family (a man doing its utmost to immediately get married, only thinking about it and limit its development just outside of family relationships).